Far From Home: OFWs and the Spirit of Christmas

“Ang Pasko ay Kay Saya Kung Kayo'y Kapiling Na. Sana Pagsapit ng Pasko, Kayo'y Naririto.”  

These lyrics from the beloved Christmas song “Sa Araw ng Pasko” resonate deeply with the heartache of millions of Overseas Filipino Workers (OFWs) spending the holidays far from home. It’s a bittersweet season when the joy of Christmas intertwines with a yearning for family and traditions. For many OFWs, Christmas is about balancing the love for home and the realities of life abroad.  

While families in the Philippines light parols and gather for Noche Buena, these modern-day heroes bear the sacrifices that fuel these celebrations. The traditions cherished by many are often made possible by the remittances sent by OFWs, a silent testament to their unwavering love and dedication.  

The New Heroes of the Nation

OFWs are rightfully celebrated as the “New Heroes” of the Philippines. Their economic contributions are immense, with the Bangko Sentral ng Pilipinas reporting a record-high $33.5 billion in remittances in 2023, accounting for 8.5% of the country’s Gross Domestic Product. This money sustains not only basic needs but also funds for education, healthcare, and the holiday celebrations that bring joy to many Filipino households.  

The simple gifts under the tree, the sweet ham on the dinner table prepared by our loved ones, and even the red envelopes or angpaos filled with cash symbolize the sacrifices of OFWs who work tirelessly, thousands of miles away.  

The Emotional Toll of Distance

Despite their heroism, the emotional toll on OFWs is profound. Joylen, a PLM student’s sister and a domestic helper in Hong Kong, shares how December always brings a wave of sadness. “Gabi-gabi lalo ‘pag malapit na ang Pasko, naiiyak na lang ako sa lungkot. Ilang taon na ‘ko rito sa Hong Kong pero ‘di pa rin ako sanay. Iba yung Pasko sa Pinas,” she says.

The mother of Rolex, a Haribon from the College of Business Administration, now 12 years abroad, finds the season particularly lonely. “Pagsapit ng Pasko, lagi kong panalangin na magkakasama kaming family. Malungkot dahil mag-isa at trabaho lang lagi sa ibang bansa,” she shares. She longs for the familiar sounds and scents of Christmas—the puto and bibingka, the laughter during Simbang Gabi. In Bahrain, where Christmas isn’t observed, she spends the holidays working. “Work, work, work, even New Year’s Day… that’s my life as an OFW,” she says, reflecting on her sacrifices for her children’s future.  

These accounts highlight the silent struggles OFWs face, especially during a season meant for togetherness. The distance disrupts the core of the Filipino family’s tradition leaving many OFWs with an ache that cannot be fully eased.  

Coping through Connection

To bridge the gap, technology plays a vital role. Video calls and social media allow OFWs to remain part of their family’s celebrations. Joylen, like many OFWs, has also found comfort in her “adoptive family” abroad. In Hong Kong, she gathers with fellow workers to celebrate. They cook, exchange small gifts, and remind each other that they are not alone.  

“Hindi man kami magkasama ng pamilya ko, at least nandito sila,” Joylen says of her newfound community. For many, these bonds help turn foreign lands into a temporary home, even if just for the holidays.  

Their perseverance and their ability to find joy despite the distance speaks to the enduring strength of the Filipino spirit. It’s a reminder that family is not merely defined by proximity but by the ties of love and shared experiences.  

Resilience Rooted in Love

At the heart of every OFW’s sacrifice is love. Rolex’s mother, who has worked tirelessly to support her children’s education, expresses it simply: “Lahat ng lungkot, titiisin ko para sa kanila.” The pain of being away from family is outweighed by her dreams for their brighter future.  

The sacrifices of OFWs highlight the true spirit of the season: the desire to create joy for loved ones, no matter the personal cost. This Christmas, let us honor their courage and selflessness. Their dedication serves as a powerful reminder to cherish our own moments with family and loved ones.